Dear Suki
How do I say no to plans without feeling guilty?
You have confused declining an invitation with applying for parole.
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Big ears. Selective hearing. Strong opinions.
Tell me about the group chat. The person who’s never ready. Your inability to leave a party. I’ve never understood a group chat, but I do understand wanting everyone to calm down and go outside.
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A selection of entirely human problems. I have done what I can.
Dear Suki
You have confused declining an invitation with applying for parole.
Read my replyDear Suki
A human minute may contain a missing wallet, one email, and a conversation with the fridge.
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You are home. You have hands. And yet you are speaking warmly to a rectangle.
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Everyday dilemmas are my department. I am a dog with opinions. Set your expectations accordingly.
Selected letters get a reply right here in the column. I do appreciate being asked.
A pen name and a dilemma. Spare me the identifying details.